“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” – Mae West
Life is not about finding yourself but about CREATING YOURSELF. You either live your life by DESIGN or by DEFAULT. The truth of the matter is that in exactly five years from now you will arrive but the question is WHERE? Will you arrive at a WELL-DESIGNED destination or NOT SO WELL-DESIGNED destination? These are the questions you must be asking yourself and addressing today.
Do you have a written down plan that you are following and that keeps you focused on what you want to achieve or you are just coasting along and hoping that things will work out in your favour someday in the future? This is living life BY DEFAULT and is SUICIDAL. To build a house, car, phone, aeroplane and many other things you need a drawing plan with a complete picture that clearly indicates how it will look like. We all need to learn from this example of building a house. When you build your beautiful house you need quality material and qualified builders with a proven track record, you won’t just pick any building material of inferior quality or person from the street. Same applies with your dream, create a complete picture of what you want to be in future and carefully choose your building materials (people, books, audio, etc.) which will be of superior quality with what you are building. So, what are you building? What are you becoming? Is it by DESIGN or DEFAULT?
Never comfort your problems, confront them head-on. Joseph Campbell said it so well, “The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.”
As a life-coach and a professional speaker this is what I help people do, confront their challenges. To change your life, book a session with me today and discover the parts of yourself you never knew existed.
Veli Ndaba is a Professional and Motivational Speaker, Life-Coach and Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner, Author of two books (You Are Born to Win and Your Dream is Calling You), Newspaper Columnist and Entrepreneur. To book him to help you and your team unleash your greatness, contact him on veli@velindaba.co.za , www.velindaba.co.za and 083 304 9773
